my lunchbox-packing cheat sheet
for kids' school lunches or dinners on the go
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packs her sons’ lunches daily.Either way, summer camps are on the horizon! I also use this lunchbox-packing formula for kids’ lunches or dinners on the go, like before or after sports (you guys ask for meal ideas for that a lot!), for day trips to the beach, and for longer spring break and summer road trips (my boys are on spring break right now so I’ll be packing roadie lunches for our car ride later this week).
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The biggest tip I have to streamline the lunchbox-packing process is to *loosely* use a formula. Here’s mine:
A protein and fat + a grain + a fruit + a veggie + a crunchy, snacky thing + something sweet
I keep a mental list of ingredients/items that fit within each of these categories, then I piece together their meal based on what I’ve got in the fridge and pantry.
Sometimes two or more of these categories are checked off with one item. For example, a Sunbutter and banana sandwich would check a protein and fat + a fruit + a grain off the list. And sometimes I’ll double up on a category (a lot of times fruit!).
Do I always achieve perfectly balanced lunches for my children? No. And when I do, do they always eat that balanced lunch? Heck no. But it’s a win that they have the option to if they’re hungry enough!
Here’s a list of my go-to ingredients to quickly create a balanced lunch/on-the-go meal for my kids. Print it out and keep it on the fridge!
And here are a few lunches made using the cheat sheet:

Sunbutter & banana sandwich (protein + fat + fruit + grain)
Snap crisps (crunchy, snacky thing)
Blueberries (more fruit)
Bell pepper slices (veggie)
Low-sugar gummies (something sweet)
Salami + pearled mozzarella balls (protein + fat)
Ritz crackers (grain + crunchy, snacky thing)
Carrot sticks + ranch (veggie)
Dried strawberries + chocolate chips (fruit + something sweet)
Tuna salad with pickles (protein + fat + veggie)
Pretzels (grain)
Veggie sticks (crunchy, snacky thing)
Skout bar (fruit)
M&Ms (something sweet)
I’d also throw in some roasted seaweed for an extra veg — they have to stay packaged until you eat them though or else they get soggy
Ham and cheese Hawaiian roll (protein + fat + grain)
Plantain chips (crunchy, snacky thing)
Mini cookies (something sweet)
Pickles (veggie — OK, technically pickles/cucumbers are a “fruit,” but in my mind they’re a vegetable)
Strawberries (fruit)
Leftover hella green noodles (veggie + fat + grain)
Chomps stick (protein)
Chickpea puffs (crunchy, snacky thing)
Fruit roll ups (something sweet)
Clementine (fruit)
Here’s the container I pack my boys’ lunches in. It’s stainless steel, has five sections, and — best part! — is dishwasher safe. I pack it in an insulated lunchbox with an icepack to keep things cool. Heads up that the sections aren’t totally sealed off, so liquid can seep from compartment to compartment — I use these airtight dressing containers to keep dressings/juicy items contained.
Pack them at night. From Molly: When I pack my kids’ lunches the night before, the mornings go so much smoother. I try to do it when I’m cooking or cleaning up from dinner, so that my knife and cutting board are already in use. If you pack lunches daily and your budget and storage space allow, having two sets of containers can help — that way there’s always a clean lunchbox ready to fill (versus having to first wash and dry the used container before you can refill it).
Utilize leftovers. Another plus of packing lunches the evening before is that you can go ahead and pack away leftovers after dinner. If your kid goes to a daycare where a microwave is available, the world’s your oyster with sending leftovers. If not, you can incorporate anything that’s good slightly cooled or room temp, like hella green noodles or a good-all-week salad (if your child will eat salad!). Find more lunchbox-friendly WTC recipe ideas below.
Maybe use a gimmick? From Molly: Years ago my 6-year-old son loved Sunbutter + jelly sandwiches. He’d reliably eat them every time I made one — it was a glorious time. But then I overdid it. I packed him one for daycare everyday for months until one day he revolted and wouldn’t even touch one… for years. Recently though he ate an Uncrustable at a friend's house so I bought this $12 at-home Uncrustable maker and it worked! So they’re back in the rotation (sparingly now that I know better). Moral of the story: Maybe it’s that Uncrustables thing. Maybe it’s fruit or cheese cut into a special shape with a cookie cutter. Maybe it’s blueberries or black beans threaded onto a cute toothpick. If you’re dealing with an opinionated eater, it might be worth experimenting with a little gimmick that makes the food look more fun. Also…
Don’t overdo something. You don’t have to make a unique lunch every day, but, as I learned the hard way, kids (everyone?) can get tired of food they eat too often. I’ve also found that my middle son, Eli, is more likely to try new foods at school than he is at home (maybe that’s because his older brother isn’t sitting beside him saying “EW!” about the food, ha!), so I’ve actually used his school lunches as an opportunity to introduce him to new foods.
Batch prep what you can. When I have time, I’ll prep some on-the-go items on Sunday to serve throughout the week. Here are some examples:
Pre-wash berries, pre-cube melons
Make a big batch of tuna, chicken, or egg salad
Cube cheese
Bake nut-free muffins or cookies
Prep a few sandwiches, like ham + cheese or Sunbutter + jelly (put the seed or nut butter on both slices of bread with jelly in the middle to keep the jelly from making the bread soggy)
Keep the servings small. We often overestimate how much children need/want to eat. I like offering a small portion of each category from the cheat sheet and going heavier on the items I know my kid will eat, that way I’m not wasting a ton of food if it goes uneaten. That’s why this is our recommended container — small compartments! If they finish a certain serving size, I’ll add a little more next time.
Here are some WTC recipes that yield lunchbox-friendly leftovers — aka, elements that are tasty served cool and that your kids might actually eat!

chipotle cheddar chimichanga tacos (some of our kids will eat tacos chilled!)
happy bowls (roasted veggies and the cashew sauce if nuts are OK)
hard-boiled eggs (see the notes section beneath the recipe for my favorite method)
magic green sauce (my kids like this as a dip for vegetables and tortilla chips)
mob wife salad — add cooked noodles to make it a pasta salad!
pita fries (and whipped pistachio feta, if nuts are fair game)
ridiculously tasty green sauce (with crudités)
souvla-inspired chicken salad (with homemade granch)
the 2025 easy-but-fancy spring menu (particularly the ham rolls, spring pea pasta, and snack plate)
veggie peanut noods (sub peanut butter for Sunbutter if needed)
What are your never-fail lunchbox ingredients — or the WTC recipes that you often pack in your kids’ lunchboxes with success?! Leave a comment by 11:59 p.m. tomorrow, April 15, and you’ll be entered to win1 a pair of my fave stainless steel lunchboxes! We’ll randomly select one winner, who will be notified by Substack DM and announced in Wednesday’s So Into That.
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We get lunch at school, but I still pack them a sandwich and snacks just in case. 9 times out of ten the sandwich becomes a ready to eat afterschool snack, which lightens the afternoon frenzy!
As someone who spends a lot of time supervising TK lunch, this is all such wonderful advice. Things teachers love: 1. When parents can send a few different options so that we don’t have to beg their kids to eat something they decided they hate even though they ate it yesterday. 2. When we don’t have to open 100 packages for 24 kids in five minutes. 3. When parents buy us lunch (kidding, unless… lol).